WEDDING QUESTIONS

  • Do all families have the trend of maklawa? I mean after the valima or the next night after valima, going and staying at the bride’s parents house. Also, which side gifts which side on this event?

no not all family has this … and I dont know who gifts who on this event

  • **Is it somewhat a relief on the wedding events if your nikkah is already done? **For those who had their nikkahs on their mehendi or baraat day, was it very stressful?

I think it is more costly for the bride’s family because they have to pay for nikkah event as well as the rukhsati event double double payment for basically the same day if your nikkahfied but havent done the rukhsati and stuff…but i think i’ve found it is better to be nikkah fied and wait a while for your other events…because it gives you time to develop strong understanding with your hubby…like with me I wouldnt have been as comfortable saying what i want if everything had been done at once but now I am more comfortbale saying hey man I want the valima dress to be of my choice i want the burri clothes to be made according to my tastes I want this i dont want that etc

  • This is a very important question for me: What regime do the bride’s follow that makes them glow and look so clean. Every bride’s pimples, scars, extra hair, etc. all are gone. Their skins are even toned and they look so fresh. What do they do?

I had weekly facials…just normal ones…I did a subway diet …I also drink a very special juice even now which is a blend of spinachk, brocolli, oranges, apples, grapes…just throw every fruit and veggie i find throw it blender and drink…i applied moisturizer day and night and pretty much all the time I aloso used this neutrogena machine here’s the link for you for it…i used this day and night (Neutrogena Facial Cleanser - www.NeutrogenaWave.com) along with shiseido products to make my skin glow and make it whiter lolz here’s link for that (SHISEIDO | White Lucent)

  • What is an appropriate event to wear a sari - of course not on the mehendi, baraat or valima but other than that if no wedding is on its way, where can you get away with wearing a heavy sari?

i think the daawats after your valima is when you can wear saris

  • **If you are actually going to the hotel for the first night, what should you pack in your suit case essentials for the night and the next day? **

your skin care, your tooth brush, your hair brush, your hair accesories, your lingerie, what you are going to wear the next day (i..e. clothes, jewelery, shoes)

  • Do parlours offer a package pre-wedding preparation. E.g. Allenora, madihas, Do they offer pakages for complete waxing, facials, bleach, manicures, pedicures, polishing etc. I would personally like to have things done starting a month before the wedding and should be kind of regular. My arms are a little tan and my face is also not even toned. I would like to follow a regime to get it all right before the big day. What did you guys do?

hmm i didnt particioate in any suchting except for wat i did at home

  • Is it okay to take your old clothes or old jewellery, make up shoes etc. with you? There are many of my present shoes and clothes that i just love, even though i have worn them. What about them?

yes it is …I am taking my old purses, makeup and some old clothes cuz they look new :wink: