Ummm…she’s not going to have an open dance floor at her wedding, but you think she’s going to be comfortable publicly groping her husband on stage in front of 400 aunties and uncles? I can just hear the mortified comments now.
Reha - it sounds like your reception is going to be very formal. I wouldn’t play any of these games - they’re going to take away from the elegance and formality of your wedding. I would do whatever ceremonies are traditional in your family, hire some sort of a live musician to provide atmosphere, and let the evening proceed on its own. I think your guests would much rather have a chance to catch up with that old friend who they haven’t seen in years than watch you and your husband answer stupid questions about eachother on stage.