Re: wedding preps and the life after
Rupayhalwa: You are right. Noone should live with their inlaws. I get on so much better with my inlaws now even though we just live 5 mins away. I could never live with inlaws..I need my own space! I feel very sorry for the girls that are forced to live with inlaws and dont have a choice. Mashallah, my hubby understands that problems are created when everyone lives together and I am glad he takes my needs into account aswell:)
Khawateen: I would get really really annoyed if my MIL asked me where I was going with my hubby, why I dont wear her jewellery that she gave me and clothes. Its none of her business. Not so long ago, my mil brought some clothes back for me from Pakistan. I know it was a nice gesture but she never asked me what kind of design or colours I wanted. I am usually quite fussy when it comes to clothes. Now my mil told me to wear a certain type of clothes she gave me on one such function. Now, I didnt wear what she wanted me to and wore what I liked and she did get abit annoyed. But ever since then she hasnt told me to wear her clothes and she wont be getting me anymore clothes. I am quite glad because she doesnt know what kind of clothes I like. Anyway, she has got the message now and everyone is happy:)