Re: wedding night
You say you’re old enough to be married yet still ask this question, and when you get comical responses you say not funny. If you’re “old enough” I’m sure you have more than SOME clue as to what will be going down.
I assume you’re talking about when he enters the room and your questions is relating to sex and all that jazz? Yes?
Regardless, what CB said is the best way to go about it. Don’t expect this and don’t expect that. You say its both love and arrange. You two surely have a certain level of understanding so you should be able to talk about it on the night and not be too awkward or freaked out. I am not personally married but I know people who, in that situation, have talked about it with their spouse and they (more often than not) tend to save the “fireworks” for a couple of days after when both are ready for it. It’s all about when you feel it.
Congrats on your upcoming nuptials and all the best to both of you!
no obviously im not stupid, i do know what will happen but i just wasnt sure as what im supposed to say when and what’s going to go on, but thanks for your advice im sure ill be fine