There is this shareef friend of mine who came to US from a religious family. Didn’t do any hanky panky.
So he’s about to get married in the upcoming month. So in more ways than one, the guy was very excited. From what I sensed, the guy was ready to go to work, if you know what I mean, the very first night.
So half jokingly, I kind of hinted to him, that you know, maybe the girl “isnt” ready - maybe it’s that time of the month. That’s caused the poor guy many worries and in turn got him thinking:
i) when the marriage date was arranged, was the girls “timing” kept in mind?
ii) if not, what can he do (he insists waiting is not an option anymore)
Ofcourse, I didn;t have any answers to the questions above. The guy and girl are both pathans (if that makes any difference).
Exactlllyyy what is meant byy ..Fazooll threaddd ..Use your head mannn .. how old is that guy .. that he is getting married and he needs a marriage councilor for his first night
why do u even get married if you dunt even knowww the laws and importance of shadiii ..
btw .. its not you is it … and phassaded a bechari sharif ladki and she did inkaar lol
If he has waited all his life, I’m sure he can wait a day or two longer.
Wouldn’t he rather get to know the girl before he becomes intimate with her? I’m assuming it’s an arranged marriage.
he prolly was in those shoess and cudnt thinkkk .. so had to open this thread ...:p
and two questions.. answers are simlyyy .. you shud av asked the gurll .. islamically you ask her permission .. and if its inkaar .. then there is a reason ..alwayss
and incase of inkaar .. you do sabrrrr .. :@: ..btw, why did you focus on the part ..sharif friend :@:
ahem ahem ahem well first of all it isnt reli neccesary that they ket the girls date in mind but lets say they didnt whats your frnd gna do ??? do something forbidden ahem ahem ..?
What a desperado, can't handle just a few days to have sex.. If it's that time of the month he can be satisfied 'manually.' It's hardly the end of the world, is it..