Re: ur feelings towards suhaag raat
Okay, here is a serious answer to get things going:
You will need these things to successfully get things going the right direction
Re: ur feelings towards suhaag raat
I have a couple of questions that I was curious about too actually..but I don't think I should ask them here..maybe if this were an only girls forum :-P
Ask away...!
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aaaahahahha that sounds downright "kinky’ 
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yes i wonder where he gets these weird ideas …:sheyn:
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lol..I wont be getting married for atleast 3-4 yrs now..I'm 19 right now..but yeah I still don't think I should ask those questions here..just the name of this thread is gonna make the guys read it :P
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ok Jaan Leva bhai, here it is what I am trying to get at.. keeping this place clean.
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Allah kisee ko itna serious bhi na banaye :(
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That is so nice…and that book is amazing!
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I was not nervous... there is nothing to be nervous about.
However, blind folding and hand cuffing your partner helps you over come those fears if you are the nervous type. :D
Still got the marks on your wrists baby?
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Allah kisee ko itna serious bhi na banaye :(
no worries here bro, Islam encourages fun activities amongst couples. seriousness ka bhi wakht hota h yaar..
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no worries here bro, Islam encourages fun activities amongst couples. seriousness ka bhi wakht hota h yaar..
So, watching educational videos that encourage self exploration are not fun? :(
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no worries here bro, Islam encourages fun activities amongst couples. seriousness ka bhi wakht hota h yaar..
Tell that to the prudes who think sex (especially on the first night) is bad.
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well i wuld never waste my suhag raat time discussing life long matters or other stuff...u gt all life to do dese things..but suhag raat shuld be diffrnt nd special...
well im gttng married in august...nd im nt really confused or nervous...i knw my hubby quite well ..nd we r close to eachoder physically emotionally nd mentally.....i thnk it dpends hw close ur wid ur partner!
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Tell that to the prudes who think sex (especially on the first night) is bad.
I think it's weird when couples who are complete strangers are expected to (and do) have sex the first night. All your life you've been sheltered from such things and suddenly you're expected to put out? I've even seen girls having arranged marriages get really stressed because their period came at the wrong time, and consider taking hormone pills to screw with the cycle, just so that they won't disappoint the random stranger they are spending their lives with.
I think that's weird. But that's my personal opinion, do what you want, as long as choice is involved and there's no external pressure.
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ufff Jaan leva kuch to sharam karo !!!
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I think it's weird when couples who are complete strangers are expected to (and do) have sex the first night. All your life you've been sheltered from such things and suddenly you're expected to put out? I've even seen girls having arranged marriages get really stressed because their period came at the wrong time, and consider taking hormone pills to screw with the cycle, just so that they won't disappoint the random stranger they are spending their lives with.
I think that's weird. But that's my personal opinion, do what you want, as long as choice is involved and there's no external pressure.
I agree Sahar..being a Pakistani Muslim girl your taught to cover yourself, not wear revealing clothes and pretty much stay away from guys..I don't know how girls are just expected to take their clothes off in front of someone (someone they don't know or haven't known for too long, in some cases) when they have been taught the opposite their whole life!
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pehli dafa hee tou zaroorat parti hai blindfold aur handcuffs ki, baad main phir wo adi ho jatey hain.
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i have a question..do you HAVE to do it on the first night as a married couple? the girl/guy should get to know eachother for a while and then get married, i mean what if theres no attraction at all? (physical, mental, sexual etc)
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there is no "have", pinklove... you do what you're comfortable with, when you're comfortable with it.
otherwise, there is no meaning to it and all you're feeling is exploited and probably also shameful and embarassed. and that is not how you should be feeling! :)
if you're total strangers, unless you both look like supermodels, i'm sure there won't be much attraction because you don't know anything about each other and have nothing to base the attraction on. you'll know when you're ready to take that step with your partner and its ok to take your time with it.