Re: ur feelings towards suhaag raat
^ EW That is just disgusting!!
On the other hand, one of my relatives got pregnant on the wedding night (or very soon after) and her MIL yelled at the guy saying it was too soon and asking him why he didn't wear a condom etc etc!
People need to realize what is and isn't appropriate for them to discuss and expect of the couple, and how and when to broach the topic.