Re: ur feelings towards suhaag raat
I think it's weird when couples who are complete strangers are expected to (and do) have sex the first night. All your life you've been sheltered from such things and suddenly you're expected to put out? I've even seen girls having arranged marriages get really stressed because their period came at the wrong time, and consider taking hormone pills to screw with the cycle, just so that they won't disappoint the random stranger they are spending their lives with.
I think that's weird. But that's my personal opinion, do what you want, as long as choice is involved and there's no external pressure.
I agree Sahar..being a Pakistani Muslim girl your taught to cover yourself, not wear revealing clothes and pretty much stay away from guys..I don't know how girls are just expected to take their clothes off in front of someone (someone they don't know or haven't known for too long, in some cases) when they have been taught the opposite their whole life!