i think the best thing in your case would be just talk hang out..beecome comfortable with her......its not always about sex and breaking through the 1st night...
you want your woman to feel comfortable in your arms and not be weirdded out bcoz she thinks oo he's a guy...he just wants sex..no woman wants to feel like tht
once uve a mutual feeling...take things as they go..ask her wht she likes...wht she doesnt like...be a friend...coz ur going to be spending the rest of your life with her and i think it will amke her respect u more...
isnt tht wat everybody wants? to respect each other right?
just my 2 cents..