Re: ur feelings towards suhaag raat
now days i m thinking how to avoid s*x on first night.i mean without spoiling his mood.as we cant say bluntly no to a man whom we gona spend our rest of our life.u cant affort to spoil his mood.this no might effect yr whole life so
one can pray for her periods during wedding.so due to periods he wont b able to ve s*x with girl.but i heard sum boys not let her wife even in periods.(animals)
and i guess one can feel uncomfortable and pain during wedding due to periods.cant enjoy dholki mehndi and all hala gulal function properly
so wha i m thikng is ...i wont let him know that i m scared..will show him i m willing to intimate with him(althought i m not)
i,ll ask him rather i,ll show to him that due to the weight of the dupatta and jewllery my neck is hurting.
*and due to wedding functions...i m so tired ..couldnt sleep for few days cuz of dholkis ,couisn vice versa *
and the lethel excuse which i m thiking is start** lil crying with tears or show him that i m very sad(gher aur gher walon se becherne k ghum main)** he might get melow and mercy on me that i m sad and all he shouldnt do this right now ..
and i dont ve the thing on wedding night which i dont want
wat do think girls will these bahanas work or should i seek more
what the...?
Just say it to him...you're marrying him! And on the first night you're gonna start lying? Remember that you gotta spend the rest of your life with him. Do you not love him enough to say it? Like Gina~ said, you can blurt all this out on a public forum where millions of people are gonna read it yet you can't tell your life partner?
Nice :)