Send all these details to your aunt and tell her to find a tailor who understands. I think it would be better if you find a home based designer rather than a kaam wala but that is your choice. If you do that, your aunt doesn't have to go looking for fabric and stuff and still supervise concentrating on your details.
If you have time, you can get a light kameez made with the same fabric, kaam on the gala and piping so that you are absolutely sure that the person making it understands your choice.
I really like your choice. :) BTW, where do you plan to get your masterpiece made?
aww thanks... im not sure where they are getting it made from... i know nothing about this whole business thats why i need so much help :/
I like ur idea tho of having the alter this dress.... i will check and see if the website can do that.