Re: wedding gifts
In my opinion you have the right to be specific cuz you don't want uneeded things as gifts. If you are moving after your marriage to a far away place then you should write Please no boxed gifts on the card as that will tell the guests you want money instead or a smaller gift that will be convenient to take with you. You could, if not moving too far (i.e. if your'e not gonna board a plane to move) then ask close family friends for things you do/do not need and be polite about it such as.."InshAllah I hope I don't receive toasters after my wedding b/c etc etc.. If you do want boxed gifts then go for a wedding registry. Many stores offer them. They just give you the price scanner and tell you to scan all items you want people to buy for you. Then on a slip of paper attached inside the envelope of the shaadi card you have written: that you have a registry people need to buy things from and then the location/website of the place where the guests type in your full name and see a list of things you have requested and then they order them offline/in store. Many sites nowadays remove items from the list someone has already brought so as not to have 2 ppl accidentally buy the same gift. Hope this helps!!
like 2 iron, crystal bowl, clothes, candles & etc, a ring (real gold, and how was she gonna return that? 
we just had it weighed and valued and only recently gave to the bride of the family that had given it to us:hoonh:), blender, food processor and loads other stuff. 
She had most of this stuff already and has never actually used the stuff given to her… but hey…
.. but hey apney lok will present with all sorts if you don’t specify it