Re: wedding dilemma
May Allah give you and your sabr in this difficult time and bestow upon your ami happiness and good health. Aameen
I concur what others have said. As much as you do not feel in a festive spirit, respec your mother’s wishes. I am sure she does not want to see you all in gloomy moods and wants to give you away with good memories not sombre ones. Also all family and friends can spend time with your mother too.
Like others have said, designate other people jobs and spend as much time with your mother as you can.
I wish you the best of luck and I know this is not an ideal situation and bittersweet. However, you sound like a strong girl and I am sure whatever decision you will make, you will be supported by your loved ones.
