Re: wedding dilemma
thanks for all your kind words guys, it really helps to see someone elses point of view. anyway i think ive decided to go with what my mums saying even though im totally reluctant still, i will definetly try and delogate tasks to family members rather than do them myself. i just hope theyll all come through for me since we dont get on very well. i will try to include mum in everything but it will be hard since her health had been deteriating some what rapidly over the last few days, i just hope after all the effort thats put into the wedding she'll still be here to enjoy it IA.
and yes somehowcollide, i'll be living with my in laws after the wedding but after a lengthy phoncall with my fiance today he told me he doesnt expect me to move at all after the wedding even if we do have the rukhsati, he said i can stay home for as long as is neccessary and until im ready to move out. im so grateful for having such an amazing person to help me through this, another thing i have my mother to thank for. finding the best life companion for me ever. thanks again guys.