Re: wedding dilemma
Sonia-c, you have my most heartfelt sympathy, I wish health and serenity to your much loved mom.
I agree with everyone else here. Make your mom's wish come true, do it up in the manner that she would like to see, leave as many details as possible to others, involve your mom in the fun things that she is feeling well enough to participate in. Even if its just sitting with her and talking about all of the details. It will make her happy. And in turn, that will help her feel better.
Will keep you in prayers.