Re: wedding and moharram don't go together?
Sorry for the late reply but I found the hadith
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Narrated Umm al-Fadl daughter of al-Harith
Umm al-Fadl went in to see Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) andsaid, "Messenger of Allah, I had an objectionable dream last night." Heasked
what it was and she replied, "It was terrible." He asked, "But what wasit?" She replied, "I seemed to see a piece of your body cut off andplaced in my
lap." He said, "You have seen something good. If Allah wills Fatimahwill give birth to a son who will be in your lap." Fatimah then gavebirth to
al-Husayn who was placed in her lap as Allah's Messenger (peace be uponhim) had said. One day she went in to see Allah's messenger and placed
him in his lap. She turned round, and noticing tears falling from the eyes of Allah's Messenger, she said, "Prophet of Allah, for whom I would give my
father and mother as ransom, what is the matter with you?" He replied,"Gabriel came to me and informed me that my people will kill this sonof mine."
She asked if he really meant this one and he replied, "Yes, and he brought me a piece of red earth." (Tirmidhi, hadith 1639)
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