How about changing one part of the outfit altogether.Whichever part would be the simplest to change without causing too much stress. Eg you could just change the duppata to a contrast colour and get different style work done on the border.U could go for a different fabric choice like velvet is back these days so add that into your outfit .
Here is what one bride did to re-use her valima sharara: she cut up her dupata which was in a light fabric (net or chiffon type) & it had heavily worked borders. She wore it as a front open open coat over her sharara . Basically it added volume and the work was concentrated all in the front of the outfit till knee length where the flair of the sharara took over. It looked gorgeous.
I know another bride that changed her valeema shirt as she had a segregated function and wouldnt be able to wear it to other functions.
If you have time, then there are a lot of options 
I’d suggest focusing on either the kameez or dopes as that is what is seen in most pics specially family portraits etc.
Hope this helps. and do let us know what you decide