we were on a BREAK....

[aliyahali]

Re: we were on a BREAK…

@Aashi

errr y do the girls mums ask u about the house over the phone?..coz they want to make sure there daughter will be happy…every woman wants to have he own place sumtime in her life where she can do wot ever she wants upsiatrs and downstairs…

now im sorry but i dont think i could live with in-laws who had a big famiy and ‘sisters’ who cum n go as they please 24 hours serving them and i cant change the look of the house, have it painted or have a patio dun etc etc…common wen will i be able to do as i please coz its not my house its sumbody elses house…

and yes every girl wants her independenc with her hubby…so she can do wotever she wants wenever shes in the house whereever in the house…not wen 24 hours mum and abbu jee are in front of us and sisters are lingering round…

common grow up ppl…parents ki respect upni jaga by all means and sisters ki upni jaga but for godsake ppl i want my own space with my hubby…

but IF I HAD TO have my own house i’d have it big nuf so i can take care of my in-laws forever or if i was to move into their house i would atlast make sure i had to have my say and have things gone my way too…

In that case maybe my mum should ask the girls mother if she can cook or clean… afterall she would want to make sure that my brother is taken care of.