Re: we were on a BREAK....
I think this married couple should grow up and stop depending on their parents. If the parents want to buy a house for them, fine. But that should not be an expectation. It's been two years. Leave that stupid issue alone. Talk together and come up with a plan for how and when they want to buy a house, how they should save up, all of that. Their are too many people and their egos involved in this narrative. It should be the couple acting like responsible adults who decide how and when they can afford a house.
err but in-laws wont let the son buy a house yet coz they want to gift the house to their son....so they have to wait until he dus decides to buy it for them wenever he wants.....
i think they should speak to them openly and tell them they want to start a family now and they need a bigger house....gift or no gift we'r goin ahead with it