we were on a BREAK....

[Aashi]

Re: we were on a BREAK…

@aliyahali

What an immature attitude they all have.

Is she working? Why do the boys parents have to buy them a house?

Why can’t they save up for their own deposit etc?

We are looking for a rishta for my brother, and I am so sick of the girls mums phoning and asking if my brother has his own place.

Yes, alhumdulillah he has a house, has had it for about 10 years now and it’s on rent. The type of people that ask about accomadation straight out on the phone before even meeting us are not the type of people we want to do a rishta with.

Nowadays, women earn the same as men, some probably even earn more, so why is there still such a stigma on the man having his own place.

Surely, the compromise is that they get their own place together.

errr y do the girls mums ask u about the house over the phone?..coz they want to make sure there daughter will be happy…every woman wants to have he own place sumtime in her life where she can do wot ever she wants upsiatrs and downstairs…

now im sorry but i dont think i could live with in-laws who had a big famiy and ‘sisters’ who cum n go as they please 24 hours serving them and i cant change the look of the house, have it painted or have a patio dun etc etc…common wen will i be able to do as i please coz its not my house its sumbody elses house…

and yes every girl wants her independenc with her hubby…so she can do wotever she wants wenever shes in the house whereever in the house…not wen 24 hours mum and abbu jee are in front of us and sisters are lingering round…

common grow up ppl…parents ki respect upni jaga by all means and sisters ki upni jaga but for godsake ppl i want my own space with my hubby…

but IF I HAD TO have my own house i’d have it big nuf so i can take care of my in-laws forever or if i was to move into their house i would atlast make sure i had to have my say and have things gone my way too…