Re: We judge ourselves by how people view us
Some are ruled by circumstances; I rule my circumstances... simple !
Wanna_be_mum, it's very normal to have a need to have kids but this is indeed a very personal matter. Don't let anyone cross the line. Those who do, tell them to go clean their own back yard and see what their kids are up to.
Re: We judge ourselves by how people view us
i dont think it totally affect how we jude ourselves but if teh same thing is said about me but a few ppl i do think abt and try and think why they se me like that, but i dont think it affects me cos like every1 has said u knw deep within ureself wht ure really like:)
Re: We judge ourselves by how people view us
we really do..sadly..
Re: We judge ourselves by how people view us
Now thats a great statement… 
Re: We judge ourselves by how people view us
Disagreed.
It totally depends on the character of those people who are judging me.
So, basically it all depends on my judgment about those people who judge me ;)
Re: We judge ourselves by how people view us
Disagreed.
It totally depends on the character of those people who are judging me.
So, basically it all depends on my judgment about those people who judge me ;)
Hit the nail on the head :)
Re: We judge ourselves by how people view us
Disagreed
Re: We judge ourselves by how people view us
Why does OTHER'S opinion matter?
It doesnt matter to me..... I know myself and my abilities, thus I only fear Allahjee how HE will look at me as a person at judgement day.
At times, people focus on other people to "forget" their own dull life and
gossip after others, because they themselves are rotten in all ways:
*Physically
*Mentally
*Spiritually.....
So raise yourself from the ashes of renewal, and dust the failures or negative opnions of other people....from yourself like its nothing.
Wanna-be-mum:
Sweety, try autosuggestion.
The best is visualization when you are with your partner. Use breathing-techniques too. Go for acupunture both of you. Find a qualified person, whom has several degrees. Like nurse and proff. in acupunture.
Inshallah rehman, you will be blessed.
Re: We judge ourselves by how people view us
I dont agree with this statement for myself but maybe it is true for some people but i would still say not for majorty this wl hold true.