Re: We judge ourselves by how people view us
As for me , i judge myself as i myself n the ppl i trust view me .the viewsof the ppl with whom we r associated or the ppl we come across are not always rite , also many ppl are not 100 percent honest in expressing their views. some of the ppl we r associated may be jealous , some wrong n some plainly lieing. one should be strong enuff to judge himself properly trying not to underestimate or over -evaluate onself.
wanna_be_mum: u shud have more faith in urself . if the ppl u r moving with have views dat u r a failure u r certainly moving in the wrong circles. trust in Allah ask for His help n try developing confidence in urself. everyone lacks sumthing at sum point of his life . try considering all the things u r blessed with n ask Allah for help . Uss keh pass dair hay aundheir nahin :)