^ Even being married to someone who was born/raised in the same country as you…is no guarantee where you might end up in the future. One might have a preference for a particular geographical location (you may like living in warmer states as opposed to colder ones)…but things can change…you may have to move for various reasons. And you can’t always see what’s coming.
BUT…if during the rishta talks…you KNEW that they guy had a VERY STRONG inclination toward Pakistan…if you KNEW that he couldn’t and wouldn’t leave his parents…and if you KNEW that this would be an issue you aren’t going to compromise on…then you ALWAYS had the option of refusing the rishta and marrying someone else. It’s like complaining about something…you knew (beforehand) was going to happen…and there’s almost no point to it.