never been there so i wouldnt know how bad it is. But as Mirch pointed out, fine these kids have to check each other out for the purpose of marriage but seriously the way they do .. definitely doesn’t seem like they wana marry each other 
hahaha seen it happen alot! and on the women’s side, aunty .. specifically desi one will come to you and say beta yahaan flaan flaan aunty nay baithna hai aap thora udher ho kar baith jayein .. i mean wth! are yuo here to pray or to sit with one specific aunty to chit chat 