lussi
September 23, 2005, 10:29pm
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Re: Wasting away our sexual prime.
cat-woman:
As desis and Muslims, especially conservative ones, we tend to put off marriage until our mid to late 20s or even early 30s. There are many shareefana guys and girls who wait until they’re married before they engage in any sort of interaction with the opposite sex. Now the modern day educated desi will typically get a degree first, get a job and get settled before they get married. What makes it even more difficult for the modern-day educated desi is that with all the education comes higher expectations with regards to the person’s family, career, education, looks (and it goes for both guys and girls). So as we steadily progress into our 20s and 30s we are missing out on 10 years of what could have possibly been filled with physical pleasure - that is for those that held out. I mean by the time a guy or gal is in their late 20s and unmarried, surely they’re highly ‘frustrated’? Either that or you just lose an interest, and your libido just isnt there anymore, especially for women. By that age you’re more interested in just having kids asap.
I don’t know I may be wrong, but I’m sure there is some truth to my theory - us desis are our own worst enemies.
i think women like those should acquire some hobbies, like horse riding or ride those mechanical bulls..u know something to keep their minds busy…or how abt spending some time at the kitchen making a banana shake or cucumber salad…all of these activites will keep their mnds away from haraam things like sex..