… for on and off 3 years, we had always planned to eventually get along, problem was we both lived in same house…imagine that!!
we stopped talking for 9 months.. well actually she chose to ignore me.. anyway so about 3 - 4 weeks ago we got back in touch… spoke it all out..decided to work on the relationship and the issues surrounding it.
then out of no where she asks me a question… would i stay in her house even if her son wants to move away.. initially i didn’t take what she said seriously and kind of laughed it off.
then we didn’t speak for about week..so i contacted her obviously wanting to know what was going on… so then again she clearly said she cant stand me but she loves her son… so she want me to insist to her son on staying at her house…
i got extremely offended by what she was suggesting and put an end to the relationship.
i thought i was doing the right thing but now i feel regretful for not asking her the reasons behind what she was saying… she mentioned she was looking for rishtas for her son… just in case…
background on the MIL.. she’s moderately religious.. family orientated.. intellectual.. understanding.. and so on and so forth..basically all the qualities that were sync with me had.
did i do the right thing by ending it.. should i try speak to her again?
I would call jet and ask why she said what she did.
And u cant live with someone that hates u ... Everything bout u, everything u do..would just set them off... Even if they promised to behave...its like a ticking time bomb.... Eventually the 2 of u would smpoil it for the husband/son... Actually it probably already has,....
Dont do further damage... And just let things be :) nazar se door, dil ke paas...sometimes this works for most families.
awesome!!!
@ Monk
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