.then out of no where he asks me a question… would i stay with him even if we don’t get married.. initially i didn’t take what he said seriously and kind of laughed it off.
that is normal for western culture that u can live without marriage, have a children, then at the latter stage if willing can marry or walk away, but in our religion u know very well about it
then we didn’t speak for about week..so i contacted him obviously wanting to know what was going on… so then again he clearly said he cant marry me but loves me and wants to spend his life with me.
same, may be he don’t want to continue with u
i thought i was doing the right thing but now i feel regretful for not asking him the reasons behind what he was saying… he mentioned his family were looking at rishtas for him
any reason, may be solid one, but will u ever think that after these solid reason u r ready to live with him at these terms & conditions???
did i do the right thing by ending it..
u did the right thing…
should i try speak to him again?
for what, as he told u he can’t marry, but he can live with u without marriage