Was it really a mistake by her..

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Re: Was it really a mistake by her..

@Ashy2010

She should not have said this. There are diplomatic ways to handle such issues and she has been very direct which is not always appreciated by others. If your friend has the commitment of the guy and he is willing to make her mom agreed, hopefully everything will be ok when the mom agrees. Afterall, the mom cannot marry his only child against his wishes. Its just that the guy and girl should first discuss this matter and put a time frame and they should get the mom agreed in that time. His mom’s hate is not irreversible and I have seen moms ending up liking the girl after sometime (mostly after marriage when they get to know the girl better). Such statement from your friend must have made the guy to question his choice of girl.

Be diplomatic about WHAT??!! Her whole life, her happiness, her mental well being? So WHAT if he didn’t like it? So WHAT if he questioned his choice of girl? She should be questioning HER choice right now?
Pinky tell your friend to walk away. This has disaster written all over it. No matter how much you’re in love, if your MIL doesn’t like you, it will never work. Period.