Friends are who always help you,They are happy because u are,They respect you…they donot \ give you pain n affliction.
I had some friends who are continuously giving me pain,they tick me off,WAs it my fault to make them my friends.??
The people i loved to talk ,i wanted to share my thoughts my opinions n loved it.But now i FEAR them.I really do.I believe they want to harm me.
WAs it my fault that today im suffering from all this.
Please please help me.
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For GOd sake, stop stop stop this.Its an earnest request.
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HOw can it be your fault u did not know what they were like, or wht their intentions were!
I dnt understand how they want 2 harm u , or wht they will do, but if this is the case, stay well away 4rm them, but don't blame yourself, All you did was to look 4 the best in ppl, How were u 2 know they wud b like this, mayb in future do not be so trusting of people
tk care:)
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Stop being friends with them? Or stop communicating with them less. Ya, just be cordial and say hi/hello but don't tell them anything about your personal life.
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Friends are the choices we make....................You have the liberty to filter out the bad eggs and keep the good ones. So why do you insist on keeping the bad ones too.
Break your bad relation before they break you......................
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Friends are who always help you,They are happy because u are,They respect you...they donot \ give you pain n affliction.
I had some friends who are continuously giving me pain,they tick me off,WAs it my fault to make them my friends.?? The people i loved to talk ,i wanted to share my thoughts my opinions n loved it.But now i FEAR them.I really do.I believe they want to harm me.
WAs it my fault that today im suffering from all this. Please please help me.
No, it's not your fault and it's not healthy for you to think like this. We can't control how others will act, we can only control we react to them. Sometimes our friends change. They can change because of distance, because of events and adjustment of priorities in life (marriage, kids, etc), they can even change because of jealousy and insecurity. In the beginning of relationships, people tend to portray a more positive image of themselves. BUT we can't predict how our friends are going to turn out in life.
You will find friends who are sincere and friends who are not. If you really care about these friends....then sit them down all together.....and talk to all of them. Start with the positives. Tell them why you're friends with them and why you like them. And then express your concerns. You can say something like, "Lately, I feel as i've been receiving a cold vibe, etc" And listen to what they have to say. I think it's best to confront all of them at once.....because you hear what they all have to say....and see all of their facial expressions.
^If your friends understand your concerns and are supportive, then that's great. If they continue to disrespect you........have some respect for yourself and maintain a distance from them. It may sound difficult. But I've had to let go of friends who were disrespecting me......and it was a liberating experience.
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WHO NEEDS FRIENDS?
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Friends are who always help you,They are happy because u are,They respect you...they donot \ give you pain n affliction.
I had some friends who are continuously giving me pain,they tick me off,WAs it my fault to make them my friends.?? The people i loved to talk ,i wanted to share my thoughts my opinions n loved it.But now i FEAR them.I really do.I believe they want to harm me.
WAs it my fault that today im suffering from all this. Please please help me.
same thing happen to me many times..
and i was the one who always tried to make thing okay..i always said sorry to them..even though its never my fault...
one who never realize thier mistake that person could never be a good friend,,
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In life, you're bound to meet all types of people. Friends argue and fight too, it's healthy - as is a bit of introspection. Sometimes misunderstandings happen, other times, people are just not what you might have thought them to be.
Don't allow the self blame to take over your life. Look into the situation, and analyze your own actions. If there are some corrections that can be made from your side, those need to be addressed first. Then you need to be upfront and honest with the friends in question. Once you're all able to communicate, you will know if you want them in your life or not. If they really are not people of quality, then you are most definately better off without them.
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its not ur fault at all ..we all make friends n den we dnt no ourselfs dat wat gets into dem or wat happens to dem as da years go by .. so not ur fault
u noe wat forge tdem move on i left my friends coz i left i was draggin da friendship other den enjoyin it.. so tyme to move on n u noe wat sum1 wrote who needs friends i agree .. ur better off wid urself!
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You can't be that desperate to have such people in your life.. can you? Try to respect your self, if it takes you to become an anti social person to get the level of respect you deserve then be it... you know how they say.. if you don't like the system, change it, if you can change it then stop complaining about it... so it's you who need to change first.. then see the miracle!
Friends,my foot.B loody jerks,LEECHES is the correct word for people like them.GEE,i feel ashamed of myself for sharing my thoughts with them.
Actually ,u know what,im showing more interest by doing this.BUt its really important for them,deaf,blind lechers.
And one more thing ,now it makes no difference to me,whatever u jerks say,all right!
Im actually feeling like...you all must have watched jab we met,
I actually feel encompassed by schmucks, the part where geet misses her train n some cheap n irritating folks surround her on the station...sounds funny but trust me readers i honestly feel like this now. ha ha
Well,i think i should stop being childish now.
Sunit if your reading this,i really respect you...really i feel like calling you sir,hehehe.
Not everyone is bad
I know how u feel. been there a few times.and felt so stupid.
It is very difficult to let go of a friendship if it meant something for u....
but at the end of the day one has to consider what is best for one. there is no need to push for something when its meant to end...
I still am struggling with those feelings..after being hurt by my 2 best friends....its like I cant trust anyone for frienship anymore..I have met many new ppl but am reluctant to open up...
WHO NEEDS FRIENDS?
Yupperz...
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If we say YES its all your fault, are you going to kill yourself? NO .. right? So I will suggest stop being friends with them and close their chapters forever. And be careful next time.
I know how u feel. been there a few times.and felt so stupid.
It is very difficult to let go of a friendship if it meant something for u....
but at the end of the day one has to consider what is best for one. there is no need to push for something when its meant to end...
I still am struggling with those feelings..after being hurt by my 2 best friends....its like I cant trust anyone for frienship anymore..I have met many new ppl but am reluctant to open up...
same with me, 2 best friends and both hurt me so much one after the other... now I will be reluctant to open up as well...
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If I'm not mistaken, you are the same lady - always paranoid that indian spies are following you, rather e-following you and hacking your computer yea? not very relevant perhaps, but I do feel for your friends.
Keep annoying ,BIG deal!!!!
And one thing ,you guys keep reading about ISlam,Jhoot main hi saahi kuch to acha hoa:)