So, i registered on a matrimonial site,and i found a man living in the same city as of mine. I did Istikhara too regarding him,and i got good feelings.Initially he was all okay,and later his behavior started changing. I felt like he wasn’t happy with me,and I wasn’t happy with him as well, so, long story short,i broke up with him,but when i broke up with him,it made him go mad,and he wrote me back many things like, i won’t be able to live happily,etc. 
Now it makes me feel bad. Was i wrong to do that?
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Kin chakron mein aap log par gaey ho?
Why cnt u meet someone in real like go out, socialise and maybe u wl find someone u like? this net is a dodgy business, most of the time u cnt even tell if the other person is even being honest about their gender/name/etc etc.
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I felt like he wasn't happy with me,and I wasn't happy with him as well, so, long story short,i broke up with him,but when i broke up with him,it made him go mad,and he wrote me back many things like, i won't be able to live happily,etc. :( Now it makes me feel bad. Was i wrong to do that?
Did you ask him if he was not happy with you and why not ? If you did not and broke your rishta just because of your sixth sense it will make any sane person mad. You cannot blame him.
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No you did not do anything wrong. you cannot be with someone just because they feel like you should. if you do not like him then you should break up with him. do not let him get to u! its just because his ego is hurt. he is trying to get back at you. just dont reply to him as he wants your attention and wants to get a response. ignore him and like zareen said go out and socialise and find someone through other ways. the internet is too dodgy and you almost never find someone who is like you. to find a life partner you need someone on the same wavelength as you and that is very h
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yes, it was a good decision...it's better to have a lil pain now than big pains later on. good...move on! :)
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what do you mean you felt you werent happy with him...? What were the reasons that lead to this ...?
but you did the right thing
So, i registered on a matrimonial site,and i found a man living in the same city as of mine. I did Istikhara too regarding him,and i got good feelings.Initially he was all okay,and later his behavior started changing. I felt like he wasn't happy with me,and I wasn't happy with him as well, so, long story short,i broke up with him,but when i broke up with him,it made him go mad,and he wrote me back many things like, i won't be able to live happily,etc. :( Now it makes me feel bad. Was i wrong to do that?
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So, i registered on a matrimonial site,and i found a man living in the same city as of mine. I did Istikhara too regarding him,and i got good feelings.Initially he was all okay,and later his behavior started changing. I felt like he wasn't happy with me,and I wasn't happy with him as well, so, long story short,i broke up with him,but when i broke up with him,it made him go mad,and he wrote me back many things like, i won't be able to live happily,etc. :( Now it makes me feel bad. Was i wrong to do that?
Was it wrong for you to do what? Register on a online site? Or break up with him?
I don't see anything wrong with either. I personally know several couples who've met online sites and have gotten married. And I know A LOT of couples who met "in-real-life" and got divorced. So where you meet doesn't guarantee the success of your marriage.
As for breaking up with him......you should feel happy and grateful! You should be happy to know that you discovered that you and him are not compatible right now.....versus AFTER marriage!
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So, i registered on a matrimonial site,and i found a man living in the same city as of mine. I did Istikhara too regarding him,and i got good feelings.Initially he was all okay,and later his behavior started changing. I felt like he wasn't happy with me,and I wasn't happy with him as well, so, long story short,i broke up with him,but when i broke up with him,it made him go mad,and he wrote me back many things like, i won't be able to live happily,etc. :( Now it makes me feel bad. Was i wrong to do that?
pnkyy, you are not supposed to feel bad. if something is not working out and you dont feel comfortable with guy then it is ok to break off. Shadi is not the matter of minutes but life long commitment of relation and requires continuous effort.
I really dont feel good with the idea of online matrimonial site. I think those are junk sites and unreliable source of information. I am agree with @ZarrenKhan's suggestion.
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Did you ask him if he was not happy with you and why not ? If you did not and broke your rishta just because of your sixth sense it will make any sane person mad. You cannot blame him.
I agree that the guy has a reason to get "mad" IF he felt he wasn't treated fairly. However, the fact that he wasn't able to control his anger...and sent her a nasty e-mail like a teenager speaks volumes about his maturity.
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You did the right thing pinkyy
Meeting someone online is not a bad thing...just be careful. These things can happen whether you met someone online or real life. The method doesn't matter...its the person.
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Were parents, siblings or any close relatives involved when you made this decision of marrying him ?! The Prophet (saw) was the BEST human ever to have lived, in terms of all the qualities including that of "judging a human", he also used to get revelations from Allah (swt) through Jibrail (a.s), YET he never ever used to take any decision without "Mashwara" with people close to him who might give good advice regarding the situation at hand. He didn't need advice, but this practice was to set an example for us. Because there is khair in taking advice from the wise & sincere people/scholars related to you so that you might have a clear vision of all the angles & perspectives before you make a decision in grave matters of life. Without views of different people, your sight is too limited (and dangerous) to take such decisions in life.
Anyways, still it isn't the point of no return (InshaAllah). Better to discuss this matter with few close relatives/friends who had dealt with/ talked to your spouse in the past. A third (sincere) person who knows both of you closely might be able to clarify the misunderstandings by talking to both of you separately and tell you where you went wrong and how to deal with your spouse in the future, with wisdom.
Istekhara is good, but incomplete without the sincere advises and practical efforts in the right direction.