Want to move out

Re: Want to move out

What’s you’re referring to is more than just sleepless nights for parents. You’re saying that parents actually NEED their children to live in the same household. You’re saying that adult children have an obligation to stay home and not “abandon” their parents just b/c they’re adults and capable of living separately. You believe that parents will never ask for help if/when they need it, and an adult will not be able to determine if the parents need help if they live separately…thus its necessary for the adult to continue living the same house to ensure that the parents have a good quality of life. Am I misunderstanding any of the above points?

And what about women? What about your wife’s parents (or future wife)? How should a married woman make sure she can do these things for her parents? Especially in cases where there is no son in the picture? Who will take care of her parents whey they are ill? In fact, how will a married woman even find out her parents her ill UNLESS the parents share that news with her (since she’s living in a separate house? Who will massage her parents body when they’re in pain or help them go to the bathroom?