Wahiyat sms trend in Pakistan effecting young girls...Advice?

[Roshni]

sms are cheap if nt free and and last time i went ever one male or female were texting all the time. i wonder wat they text all the time.

a cousin whom i met lately said after 8 pm as too much loaddsheding all you do is text eachother, forward poetry etc.

her parents will never underdstand.
my taya jees daughters can convince eveyone including her parents in less than 5 min, someone totally innocent to be their dushman.

so no one stands a chance in front of them.

in your cousins case just stay away from her. thats best you czn do. even someone tries to help her or her parents they will b villian.

[SweetLady]

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@cancerian87

i think her solution is to get married soon becoz her frustration casuing prblms in your family members

We tried…sons of my mamu…my mamu himselfm..elders in the fam but tge fther of that cousin doesnt want to lissn…woh kehtey heyn abhi uner hi kya huyi hey, look at her (so me) who got married when she was 23 , so i will wait till my daughter is 25 …in his eyes she s a 10 year old child or somwthin

@cancerian87

u can or any other family member just talk nicely with their parents that this age is good for getting married and some tareef of their beti :)hope they get agree and find solution

@Roshni

sms are cheap if nt free and and last time i went ever one male or female were texting all the time. i wonder wat they text all the time.

a cousin whom i met lately said after 8 pm as too much loaddsheding all you do is text eachother, forward poetry etc.

her parents will never underdstand.
my taya jees daughters can convince eveyone including her parents in less than 5 min, someone totally innocent to be their dushman.

so no one stands a chance in front of them.

in your cousins case just stay away from her. thats best you czn do. even someone tries to help her or her parents they will b villian.

Exactly!!! This s the complete thing!! She s convincing them in 1 min by sayin: main quraan uthati hoon woh bhi quran uthayen n woh sms parh ker sunayen" …but the sms r so wahiyat that the other party deletes them…and she empties her fone aswell…

I do have screenshots of her smses and whatsapp texts that ahe has sent to my brothera n husband…but if gonn aay aomethin, her mom n dad will accuse me of jealousy towards their daughter…she plays it sooo good that no one can “catch” her …

I get sick of the smses n shayiri in pk…80% s double minded (when a girl sends it to a boy or vice versa) …but ruinin lifes and makin other people look like lyers…makin ur own khaloo and devers of ur sister gettin wrong ideaa for visiting u can’ t go good for a long time right?

[paki_rana]

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She is just bored :)

[zayma]

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well if she is deleting the sms why dont ur other relatives save the msgs and show them to her parents hrr parents in tuurn kp her numbrs and im suure she does pu those sims bk in and catch her out like that..

[cancerian87]

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i think every one knows about her in your family so all u can do is o stay away from her changes yur mble number and tell this to your brother and husband or just block her number or u can all of them just ignore her whenever she msg u just say ALLAH hadiyat dey usko

[queer]

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How you know Kahlua didn't come over for biryani and for sax? Howwww?

[muqawwee123]

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So there was already a topic related to smses etc

But what i heard today, just put me in a huge shock :S

My own (single 21 year old) cousin is texting married males (her khaloo, the hubby of her sis even the devars of her sister, my brothers and my hubby as well and so on)

The smses are really wahiyaat (they cross the limit of rate me in my shalwar blabla) ...She sent her khaloo such a wahiyaat sms that he just came to her house with a bad intention...and she run to my mamu's home to hide from him...there she told the wife of my mamu's son what happend (including the fact that she sent him texts with double intentions...

So when the wife of my mamu's son told it to her hubby and they went to discuss it with the father of my cousin, she simply denied it and even said "main quraan uthaoon ghi, i didn't send any text to him bablabl"she played it soo good that the poor wife of mamu's son got a lable of lier and jealous female...

Another example: She sent seductive smses to the hubby of another cousin and the trend sets on..even the dever of her cousin and the dever of her own sis...the dever blocked her once on whatsapp...she started sending him texts on his second number...when he said it to her parents she started yelling and screaming "meyn kasam uthati hoon i didn't do it...and out of blackmailing she stops havin food etc so her parents trust her immediatly)

Whenever someone wants to tell her parents about it she denies it (she deletes her smses immediatly/walks with 20 sim cards and as soon she is busted she puts her sim card away)...Her parents trust her blindly...don't believe nyone else but her...us ka 1 hi dialoug he "meyn quran uthaney ko tayaar hoon" and her parents believe her...

So i was wondering if someone has some advice for me (she is also sending really akward smses to my brothers and my hubby :S ...and i already told her parents, but they don't believe me and see me as a dushman of their daughter)....i mean if her khaloo wanted to S** her i mean baat kafi bhar sakti hey...woh apney maa baap ki naak zuruur katwaye ghi if she continues like this... (her parents don't want her to mary till 4/5 years from now...her brothers and sisters won't say her nythin aswell)...

The whole situation is really disturbing me :S... i mean i knew there was a wahiyat sms trend in pk...but wthell :S

so a serious appeal for some advice plz

Only Hazrat Rehman Malik can solve this mystery of 20 unregistered sims

[khattichic]

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I still find it hard to believe that this really is a trend in Pakistan. 20 SIM cards? Are you kidding me? Parents are so naive and gullible that they can be manipulated in such manner?

And yet, it’s the ABCD’s/BBCD’s that get the bad rep of being “bigrahuwa” and “awara”..too advanced…too forward…

[pakistanimard]

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^its not a ''trend'' OP's cousin seems to be a bit too horny. Needs to get married ASAP.

[khattichic]

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^ the op's title of this thread, post #21, as well as nadz' thread on the ame topic last week seem to indicate that it is a growing trend...however I still like to give the benefit of doubt and write it off as horny teens/young adults as you say.

[Deeba1234]

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[SweetLady]

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@zayma

well if she is deleting the sms why dont ur other relatives save the msgs and show them to her parents hrr parents in tuurn kp her numbrs and im suure she does pu those sims bk in and catch her out like that..

Cuz she simply say’s it are forward smses i havn’t sent them to nyone…i dont even use that number since years…trust me she plays it really smart towards her parents…woh sirf kehti hey meyn quran uthaney ko tayaar hoon and her parents start trusting her an doubting everyone :bunmer:

@cancerian87

i think every one knows about her in your family so all u can do is o stay away from her changes yur mble number and tell this to your brother and husband or just block her number or u can all of them just ignore her whenever she msg u just say ALLAH hadiyat dey usko

Yeah have done it..she even had the guts to sms them with her other nmmrs aswell:s reallyy baqwaas and wahiyat girl…i am shamed to hve such wimps in my fam

@queer

How you know Kahlua didn’t come over for biryani and for sax? Howwww?

Well she trusts my mamu’s sons wife…and told her in details what happened…the 2 of them had a bold convo first and as soon as he showed her things/made clear what he wanted to do she run to the other house…when my mamuzaad cousins wife aked her wthell was goin on…my cousin told her what he was doin…u may doubt the wife…but i don’t…cuz agar woh baat barha charha ker bataney wali hoti…us neyn yeh baat dil meyn na rakhi hoti…she just told it to us cuz things r gettin out of controll

@khattichic

I still find it hard to believe that this really is a trend in Pakistan. 20 SIM cards? Are you kidding me? Parents are so naive and gullible that they can be manipulated in such manner?

And yet, it’s the ABCD’s/BBCD’s that get the bad rep of being “bigrahuwa” and “awara”..too advanced…too forward…

Yeh she collects the sims of western cousins too…for example when we went to pk a year ago we had 5 new sims…n when we got back to uk we left those sims in pk…n she uses them…her dad even said to my mamuzaad brother “main jis key saath zyada karta hoon wohi meri izzar ka dushman hey, kisi ko meri aulad bardaasht ni hoti”

@pakistanimard

^its not a ‘‘trend’’ OP’s cousin seems to be a bit too horny. Needs to get married ASAP.

i wish i could get her married in a week time :s and for once i completely agree with u about the horny thing…but i also believe it is a trend…roshni has lso mentioned somethin same

@kttichic

^ the op’s title of this thread, post #21, as well as nadz’ thread on the ame topic last week seem to indicate that it is a growing trend…however I still like to give the benefit of doubt and write it off as horny teens/young adults as you say.

Kttichic i dunno if it only the horny curiousity of such kind of girls…i do believe that if we dug deeper…a lot of stories like this will b revealed…aaj kal talakeyn n affairs esey hi start hotey heyn

@Deeba1234

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[pakistanimard]

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^ the op's title of this thread, post #21, as well as nadz' thread on the ame topic last week seem to indicate that it is a growing trend...however I still like to give the benefit of doubt and write it off as horny teens/young adults as you say.

ohho. I was saying there is no trend of sending messages to relatives. Far from it, however, sending sexts and 'ghanta package' is indeed in trend, but not to family but outsiders.

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I agree you make a valid point.

[SweetLady]

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ohho. I was saying there is no trend of sending messages to relatives. Far from it, however, sending sexts and 'ghanta package' is indeed in trend, but not to family but outsiders.

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It can be that she is even doing that aswell! but we don't know...cuz hummeyn to ghar key ander waley messages ka pata challa...i don;t believe that she is so shareef to skip the males out of the fam ...

[SaeedinPakistan]

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Which Pakistan do I live in ?
Why do I miss all these interesting trends ?

[Sara516]

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im sorry but she is just as disgusting as that khaloo. I have no idea why you would think it's a trend when it's one girl out of millions doing this.

[SweetLady]

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@Sara516

im sorry but she is just as disgusting as that khaloo. I have no idea why you would think it’s a trend when it’s one girl out of millions doing this.

She deffinatly is! and he is aswell! i ain’t sayin a good word for her…
but it is deffinatly a trend…cuz there r a lot of things happening in pk with this sms trafic…you can google some of them

[Roshni]

in early 2000 you didnt need to register sim cards and could get from anywhere. than gov said to register those sim cards or you can only get on national id cards.

not everyone destroyed those sim cards and they still work.

lots of my relatives still havd them and use them.

itz nt impossibld thing to have 10 or 20 sim cards

[SweetLady]

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Or just collect them via via

[Hadeel]

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Sms'ing in bulk is a trend. Sms'ing wahiyaat things to your family is not.

Your cousin is a psycho. So is your khaloo. Don't blame the whole of Pakistan for it please.