Re: waaldain …
Unfortunately I am one of those idiots who gave a lot of grief to my parents a couple years ago due to “reasons” and as i was not having the best of days yesterday i went out to see a friend, we were having sheesha (which btw totally blocked my already sore throat and now i dont have a voice :D) and he rencently moved out and bought his own place cuz he is getting married in june, so anyways i told him y i was upset and thats when we came to this topic, parents, a blessing from Allah whom we have (in our heads) turned into our enemies just cuz they dont agree with something we think is right for us and i made the same mistake 4 yrs ago, when i left them, said nasty things to them etc etc and then came a reality check from Allah, i hit rock bottom in my life and guess who came for support 
my parents, no friends or anything, ppl when they found out what happened just cut all contacts. And u know wat i questioned myself for da first time, why after all i have done did my parents give me another chance, and u know wat my mom said, “agar aapkee unglee pey chote lag jaaye to aap uss ko sahee kartey ho, marhum lagaatey ho, aur patti kartay ho, kaat kay nahi pheink detey” it didnt make any sense then but now it does, I am mashaAllah leading a nice life at da moment, achee job hai , koi fikar nahi etc etc. but not a moment goes when i dont thank Allah and make dua for Mom and Dad. I love you Pappa and Mummy.
Thanks guys
Jaanwar Laalay this thread was dedicated to all parents, ab jo agree karta hai welcome and who dont can ignore it :k: saanu kee. I guess its a sign i am growing up 
awwwwww Maham 
thanks trust me i am not good enough.