Re: Vulnerability
**There is this guy who loves this girl who is married with one son but living with her parents for few years now as her husband is abusive. Now he wants to marry her & all that jazz just because she is bechari & all. **
How do you know his reasons for marrying her. Maybe they talked, hung out together and he fell for her. And maybe she likes him as well. Plenty of becharis in the world. Why did he go for this specific bechari? Probably because they like each other.
So i was thinking is it normal for guys to get attracted to woman who are abla naaris?
It’s normal for straight guys to like women. I think her being an abla naari might be incidental.
**Do they like to do social work in the name of marriage?
**You meet a girl, spend some time with her. You guys end up liking each other. It’s not about social work. Why not go for the massi if social work is all you care about?
**cuz this is not the first guy I came across who wants to help some abla naari.
**Girl shared everything with him, wont that make her vulnerable & appear weak infront of the guy?
**You share what you want to share. You share what you feel comfortable sharing. She probably felt like she could trust the guy with her story, her journey so she talked about it.
Some people like to share their stories good or bad. Maybe you’re a guarded person who likes to keep personal stuff person and that’s why it’s difficult for you to understand this girl’s behavior.