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Oh you have to know some of the Waha-booboo wahabis on this board.
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Such as who? I haven't read anyone here saying "visiting graves of loved ones" per se is a "bidda"... maybe i missed it in an old thread...
Army, you have a very screwed up way of explaining Islam. And one more time, learn to read one line at a time before you start preaching. I never said a word about Fiqqah. I asked how can reading verses of Quran be considered as bidah? Here's what is normally done by many, and we have started doing this since my Abu jee passed away. You cook your normal food, and right before eating it, any random verse from quran is recited and a dua is made for all departured souls, including prophets, as haba etc etc and your loved one. Now tell me how this can be wrong?
Fateh is normally said when someone dies and you go visiting the family left behind and you make a little prayer. Why is that wrong? No one is or has claimed that not doing this makes you kafir. There are a lot of thing prophet has never done, like typing on a keyboard or recording Quran on CD's, is that bidat too? There's absolutely no need to present Islam in such an extreme fashion, that too ppl who've lost a loved one.