dude i think in marrying a person there are tons of other things taht come to play and i'm not gonna lie virginity does play a part ... but to be honest ... in my case if i love someone enough and they click all the other boxes for me ... then i'd probably let this one go
Why would virginity be an issue in the first place? It's so commonplace amongst our society you can't believe anyone anymore.
I can ask a girl if she's a virgin and she'll say yes, but she could've done other things. So I have to take her word for it. There are more important things to find out about a girl before you marry her.
I'd ask a girl if she's a virgin to check if she is carrying anything, not because if she spread her legs for another man. If she was active in the past, i'd want her to get tested before marrying me.