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Can this question be easlily answered, i suppose not.
It depends on culture to culture, in our culture a girl who has lost virginitly due to adultery may be disliked and preferred less but that is changing i suppose.
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Can this question be easlily answered, i suppose not.
It depends on culture to culture, in our culture a girl who has lost virginitly due to adultery may be disliked and preferred less but that is changing i suppose.
Is it , i dont think soo , that is not changing never will a man accept a gurl who has lost her virginity unless it is wid himself , or she is widowed n divorced .
a man cannot bear to think that another has even been around his wife.. and that is understandable ..
also y should it change it is haraam in our culture and religionn therefore it should not change
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hey i was just saying are divorced and widowed woman less appealing not in the sense where she has never been married before.
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hey i was just saying are divorced and widowed woman less appealing not in the sense where she has never been married before.
haha......you should have explained your question in detail.:)
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The guy should not expect a woman to be any more pious than he himself already is.
Fair Enough.
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So what shud be the motive? Body parts?
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personality? character? 
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it says in the Quran
that a man will always find a women like himself , nature wise
so no injustice is ever done , also a virgin women is always respected more then a non virgin isnt dt common sense i mean if u have slept wid sumone already u cnt xpect ur husband to respect u . same goes for d guys however a women cn neva tell if d man is a virgin or nt unless he says so himself dt he isnt . bt god dusnt ever do injstice . every man/women gets a partner dt dey deserve, never less n never more.
I thought the Quran says one deserves to marry a person with virgin status like his/her own. I don't think it says that each person always finds a person like himself naturewise. Empirically, that wouldn't be true.
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it says in the Quran
that a man will always find a women like himself , nature wise
so no injustice is ever done , also a virgin women is always respected more then a non virgin isnt dt common sense........ every man/women gets a partner dt dey deserve, never less n never more.
I beg to differ. If your explanation is CORRECT then why do we see good girls married to bad guys (or the reverse) who literally destroy their better half's life. Male partners beating/killing their spouses, and why the hell Divorce ratio is shooting up? IT CAN'T BE RIGHT OR GIVE A BETTER EXPLANATION THE SECOND THIME. WOULD YOU?
Is BEING a MORE pious guy wrong?
Absolutely Not! But then looking for a partner who could help u become one isn't wrong either.
Wouldn't it be better if a good guy marry 'wanna be shareef' girl and PIOUS girl helping NOT so devout guy? (read wanna be)
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I beg to differ. If your explanation is CORRECT then why do we see good girls married to bad guys (or the reverse) who literally destroy their better half's life. Male partners beating/killing their spouses, and why the hell Divorce ratio is shooting up? IT CAN'T BE RIGHT OR GIVE A BETTER EXPLANATION THE SECOND THIME. WOULD YOU?
Absolutely Not! But then looking for a partner who could help u become one isn't wrong either.
Wouldn't it be better if a good guy marry 'wanna be shareef' girl and PIOUS girl helping NOT so devout guy? (read wanna be)
CHILLL OUT DUDEEE , IFU CN CUM UP WID A BLOOODY BETTER EXPLANATION GO AHEAD , i quoted sumefin from d quran d rest is donw to allah n deyre kismat a mixture of bad decisions by deyre parents or demselves.
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I thought the Quran says one deserves to marry a person with virgin status like his/her own. I don't think it says that each person always finds a person like himself naturewise. Empirically, that wouldn't be true.
no it duz say nature wise
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CHILLL OUT DUDEEE , IFU CN CUM UP WID A BLOOODY BETTER EXPLANATION GO AHEAD , i quoted sumefin from d quran d rest is donw to allah n deyre kismat a mixture of bad decisions by deyre parents or demselves.
Sister please give the reference of the ayah and surah bcoz i myself have never heard or read this ayah like others.
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CHILLL OUT DUDEEE , IFU CN CUM UP WID A BLOOODY BETTER EXPLANATION GO AHEAD , i quoted sumefin from d quran d rest is donw to allah n deyre kismat a mixture of bad decisions by deyre parents or demselves.
mizzrani, it was something along these lines:
“paak mardon k liye paak aurtain hain aur na paak mardon k liye na paak aurtain” OR
Virgin women are for virgin men and non virgin women for non virgin men"
Obviously it’s not always the case but this is how it should be anyway.
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^and your reference is?
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Thanx
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why would you want a virgin in the first place, then you will have to train her all over again.
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why would you want a virgin in the first place, then you will have to train her all over again.
I agree with you dude, I would prefer experience to a newbie !! Was just reading an article yesterday, which stated that more only 4% of US adults are virgin.....This would follow soon in our desi countries....maybe in the next 10 years !!
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