Re: VIRGINITY AND MEN
You never know, WitchDr, you never know. Frankly, I don't think that was the case. Islam, out here in our community, is more for show for some people. "Dekho, hum mazhab ki kitni izzat kartay hain". They'll break the same Islamic laws that they profess to uphold with such reverence.
Again, I agree with most of what pyariCgudia said. I see this happening almost all the time.
WitchDr: u say things r not as simple as they seem. plz tell me what ur point is here. men r looked downupon as well? umm not really, i have seen and heard abt men who openly talk abt thier past relationships including physical ones to their new gfs or even wives and they are not ashmed nor scared. Sadly, wives dont have a lot of choice and end up living with them and forgive them because this act of men is looked as "koi baat nahi jawani mein aisa ho jata hai" or "larka hai, phir kya hua".
And, I am DYING to know if u r a male or female (i havent checked ur profile, incase it says it there)
If you were really DYING, you could have checked my profile. I am a male human.
Sadly, wives and gfs have choice but they don't exercise it. Are these ladies so desperate to have a guy that they forgive such behaviors (if it is a big deal for them). I do agree that our society is more open to boys committing such acts compared to girls, but that does not mean it is not looked down upon.