Re: VIRGINITY AND MEN
It may be looked down upon, but yet at the same time, most people turn their face to it. In our community here, about 70% at least, I'd say, of the men have at least dated with some sort of physical contact prior to marriage. Everyone knows who the guys are, because we know which girls are dating them. But they still get married.
You never know, WitchDr, you never know. Frankly, I don't think that was the case. Islam, out here in our community, is more for show for some people. "Dekho, hum mazhab ki kitni izzat kartay hain". They'll break the same Islamic laws that they profess to uphold with such reverence.
Again, I agree with most of what pyariCgudia said. I see this happening almost all the time.
WitchDr: u say things r not as simple as they seem. plz tell me what ur point is here. men r looked downupon as well? umm not really, i have seen and heard abt men who openly talk abt thier past relationships including physical ones to their new gfs or even wives and they are not ashmed nor scared. Sadly, wives dont have a lot of choice and end up living with them and forgive them because this act of men is looked as "koi baat nahi jawani mein aisa ho jata hai" or "larka hai, phir kya hua".
And, I am DYING to know if u r a male or female (i havent checked ur profile, incase it says it there)