Viewer discretion advised: advice needed from married women

[mod] Anyone who has NOTHING to contribute to this thread, please feel free to leave. We don't go by what details they should or shouldn't write, or if they should post their problems elsewhere- that's for the mods to decide, yeah? Considering how Saratem has been a long-time member on this site, I suggest that anyone who's 'appalled' by her thread or only has criticism to offer, please hit your 'back' cursor and browse other threads. People come here with their problems, and if you don't like them, too bad. Thank you. [/mod]