Re: Very personal question
^ i agree with most of what you said but disagree with who should say it.
The final decision is between the guy and gal.. so whatever the issue, the gal should tell the guy personally in her own words or the guy shoudl tell the girl.
This will strenghten their bond and maybe, Inshallah, make is stronger. Parents do things their own way... its them two that will spend their life together, so let them be open with that communication right from the word go