Very much upset !

^That’s what I thought as well.

I understand that nobody is obligated to follow the advice given here…but SOOO many members (both male and female) advised you not to marry him in the first place because of this exact problem that you’re telling us about…for the umpteenth time. It’s not like you were unaware. You saw how abusive he was even before the wedding.

Can’t dump all the blame on your husband…do also put considerable amount of blame on yourself for lacking self-respect. It wasn’t like your parents were forcing you to marry him…they disapproved of his behavior and were supportive.

Keep in mind that pregnancy causes irritability and mood swings…so you may react stronger than usual to some behaviors/comments that otherwise may not be such a huge deal. You haven’t provided details about what problems you’re facing. Could you perhaps take a break and go live with your parents for a while? Try that…it’ll give you peace…allow you to clear your mind…and think more rationally about how to approach your issues and what needs to be done.