Very complicated & weird proposal experience..need girls advice

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Re: Very complicated & weird proposal experience..need girls advice

@StrangeOne

Here’s my list because I’m procrastinating.

1. Be clear on what your moral values are to yourself. Either you’re the kind of guy that discusses porny stuff with girls you barely know or you’re don’t. And there’s a zameen asmaan between the two kinds of guys. You can’t fix someone without fixing yourself first to meet your own standards.

2. Don’t be blown away by a pretty face.

3. Seriously, don’t. Acting like a teenager is always a no no.

4. Keep your preliminary Facebook findings for the initial yes or no. Don’t wait months.

5. Trying to change an adult does not work. Why bother? You can ask of course but it’s not necessary they will comply.

6. Realise that you aren’t everyone’s dream man. You weren’t for this girl. She knew what she wanted in life and the second she realised you weren’t the guy of her dreams she said goodbye. You should take a lesson from her decisiveness at least.

7. Look at girls as future wives and not girlfriends. The day you started considering the girl as your wife you immediately started to check her behaviour. Before that you allowed things to go out of control because you acted like a boyfriend and not a future husband. You should have said, no, I respect you too much to indulge in this kind of behaviour before marriage.

Thanks for the reply, it’s really helpful! As for #3](http://www.paklinks.com/gs/usertag.php?do=list&action=hash&hash=3) , that’s a guy thing regardless of age but you’re right can’t get smitten with looks, need to focus on personality, character and values. Truth be told, almost any girl can look good when she tries so looks shouldn’t matter so much.