Re: Very complicated & weird proposal experience..need girls advice
A lot of you girls on here have such a different outlook on love and relationship–Im not saying your views are wrong and mine is right, everyone is different but its interesting to see how girls on here perceived me and my love for the girl. But it’s scares me to see that this is how girls think because it’s so does not match my mindset and I’m worried I wont find a suitable match.
This had nothing to do with me having a power trip or hit to my ego or need for control or possessiveness or extreme jealousy or conservatism or whatever you want to call it. I would have treated the girl like a princess, I truly loved her and I was truly valuing her A LOT instead of wanting to share her with the rest of the guys, I wanted her to myself whats wrong with that? I wasn’t expecting her to give up her entire life and her interests or cage her. Just respecting and valuing our committed relationship.
Do you girls go around sharing your diamonds or expensive jewelry with everyone you see? I’m not saying shes my property. I’m saying to me she is more valuable that any piece of diamond or gold and anything valuable is not so readily open or available to just anyone. I formed a very strong connection with her and feel like I truly lost a very close and dear friend. Nothing to do with ego. What some girls here have said is exactly what her and her sister would say also and the justification they used to end it and its just such an inaccurate interpretation of my love. It’s hard to shake off that perception of what girls consider controlling I guess.