Very complicated & weird proposal experience..need girls advice

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Re: Very complicated & weird proposal experience..need girls advice

@pak2015

Awesome reply. I try to be self-aware and self-reflective in things I do so yeah I tried to make sure it wasnt coming off as a list of demands, and discussed the issues over a span of 8 months. You’re right that there are decent people using Facebook and post pictures once in a while–she had nearly thousand of friends and changed her display picture almost every week to a picture of herself. Nothing wrong with occasionally updating FB or having a moderate number of trusted friends or family members. But with her everything seemed a bit to the extreme. It was always a bit too much, more than what most others were doing. She was lacking subtlety in many aspects and seemed like she loved being center of attention and in the spotlight. It directly clashes with my private and more subtle approach, which I personally find more classy but everyone is different. **Although her and I had great chemistry overall, I guess our mindsets, personality and priorities were just too different.

Hope I can find someone with at least somewhat similar perspective as mine. I just want a girl who can self regulate herself, I dont want to change or control anyone or be worried about what kind of image my future wife is giving off to the public–no desire or time for that. Such girls still exist right? All my guy friends tell me to just get a housewife**

I think you answered your own question. But you BOTH dodged bullets. Your personalities just weren’t compatible.