Life demands that you keep friends and acquaintances. The degree of friendship is proportional to how long you know someone and also commonality of interests.
How many very close friends you have what are common bonds behind these freindships ? And then how many not so close friends you have. what makes you think that they are not so close friends ?
Do you have any acquaintances too ?
How do you juggle your life around these varying degrees of friendships ?
hmm…friends are blessed gifts from providence!. It needs only a loving n caring heart and understanding mind to make real gud friends regardless from where they belong , what kind of personalities they carry.
I have so many people in my in my circle of PR N i know so many people…hmm n there are many ppl who call me as their gud n best friend but wait…Can i place them in the same category?..No, i cant.
We come across so many people in our daily life but our frequencies doesnt always match with everyone we meet instantly, sumtimes it takes time to goto the next level from being acquaintances to be friends. Time is a big factor in making friendships strong as u both go through different phases of ur lifes together n in b/w these phases how u both grow together. Sumtimes we know sum friends from childhood but they doesnt pass to be our close or our best friends, its about the quality of bonding. It involves trust,sincerity, loyalty and understanding , ones integrity ,motive, intents ethics..etc etc to make such bonds strong. N yes, when u get the same response n feed back from other person!.Its about how much u both have helped n being there for eachother in the time of need. A friend in need is a friend indeed!. anyway..i feel like i can go on n on
on this…back to the topic
I have few close friends(mayb 5-6) around whom i can b myself!. Who knows me well enuff n respect me for who n wat im!. Bonding is itself a process, i can say that we bonded well together in our times of need. Friends gives u positive strenght to help u move on. N there are so many friends i dont consider them as my close friends…becoz im not sure wther they are reliable enuff or not!..
I had a best friend n now after losing her…
i feel like kind of lost in b/w these different varying degrees of friendship!..:hinna:
i shud cut my prolonged post now…
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Nice musings , thanks for sharing.
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Well i m very choosy in making friends but still i have a reasonable amount of friends.
but if i have to rank em according to how close they r to me then i would say that i have hardly a couple of friends who r really close to me.
cuz u can have a million friends but only few would be able to support u when u need em, and would understand u and u would be able to talk to em on topic u want.
most of the friends in my circle r just able to talk about girls, weed, clubs and stuff, and if u wana discuss about business, study, religion, politics or u need some sort of help then they would quiet, they would not know wat to say.
So degree of closeness for me varies with the fact that how many things u can talk about and how willing they r to support u when u need em.
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kehne ko sath apne ik duniya chalti hai
par chhupke is dil meiN tanhaai palti hai
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Old is gold, my main priority is most probably my childhood friends who I keep in touch moreso than others! :-)
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^^ that is true.