I wish to avoid fanaticism … brother vroom … I follow Deobandi/Nadwi school in matters of fiqh and I follow my Shadhili/Sufi teachers for matters of ihsan, not the Deobandis - I see what the Barelvis say is correct in matters that pertain to the adab and maqam of RasoolAllah (SAW) but I can’t see that is has benefited most of them in matters of ihsan, except when they specifically resort to a tariqah … So just as my tariqah has allowed me to rise above the problems in Deobandism, my fellow mureeds who are from Barelvi backgrounds are elevated above the problems from Barelvism and hence I get along just fine with my brothers in tariqah regardless of what fiqh background they are from …