Some people use them in english and panjabi as a habbit and it is disturbing when either one doesn’t understand the meaning or know it is immoral after such words are exchanged in gatherings. Sometimes if one makes the mistake of learning the meanings, one repent for one’s curiosity. Sometimes if one doesn’t care about it one might end up using few words unintentionally after one is forced to listen to them “again and again” several times a day in official areas where it is difficult to avoid them.
**My question: **In your view, Is it alright to use words in daily life with disturbing meanings if the user claims that he doesn’t “actually” mean it while using them as a habbit ?
For Example. In pakistan some people use an abusive word for one’s sister as a “Takya-e-kalaam” in most of the sentences.
I might be wrong, but I sincerely feel that a person who doesn’t know us very well might be offended by such words and The Prophet Mohammad (S) has said:
“Affliction caused by the tongue is worse than (that caused by) the strike of the blade of a sword”