It is agreed by majority that using bad words in conversation are not good. Otherwise they would not be called ‘bad’ words.
1- Do you think there is even a slight bit of double standard that it might be acceptable to some extent for men to use these words during conversation than women?
2- Do you think if a man does use those words he is considered a ‘macho man’, and someone who avoids using these words is considered ‘naive’ or ‘sissy’ boy?
(Mind you, the man may be fully aware of these words)
3- Do you think if a man uses these words during usual conversation,
a- he is trying to either show off to be a macho man or
b- is trying to overcome his weakness in making a point?
c- He was brought up in an environment where he was too much restricted or too much neglected?
Diwana I strongly agree with almost all of your points . I find it a huge turn off when I find someone using an abusive language . I don't know but with the women it sounds even worse . May be we think of them as little delicate creatures and swearing sounds so bad coming from them .
Most of the time it just defeats the purpose . May be the only kind that is fine when you are with your very close friends and they do it jokingly . Just to make whole conversation funnier .
Diwana I strongly agree with almost all of your points . I find it a huge turn off when I find someone using an abusive language . I don't know but with the women it sounds even worse . May be we think of them as little delicate creatures and swearing sounds so bad coming from them .
Most of the time it just defeats the purpose . May be the only kind that is fine when you are with your very close friends and they do it jokingly . Just to make whole conversation funnier .
Absolutely, in men's company a lot goes on for fun... I ain't sharing here..lol
Let me clarify for girls/women, not everything which goes on in men company for fun is 'bad'.
^Yes, there is double standard, people commonly say "that's not lady like".
Men may feel uncomfortable marrying women who swear during usual conversation.
Being a potty mouth is tacky, and sinful whether girl or guy. If you think you're cool while being a potty mouth, then you're just as stupid as those who smoke cuz they think they're cool.