ur such a kewl person Mehnaz
Right back at ya … 
… and I think you are VERY nice. 
On a side note, you have to be the only person to think that … sigh … my first fan. 
hehe thank u 
we’re gonna go al girly soon… so lets keep this thread sane
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*Originally posted by sadzzz: *
i think there are more good people in this world than bad.. just like there are more true friendships than users...
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TOTALLY WRONG!
why?
I told you I was extremely busy. Tum nay to yeh baat dil ko laga li.
How do you spot a user? Like i am in contact with a frnd since kindergarden. But lately i am thinkin its not really a friendship. And then i think, no should i throw 17 yrs of friendship just like that?
My biggest prob is to reach a decision 
So any bright ideas how to spot them?
simple soulution dont let people close to u so they cant hurt even if the want to.
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Wise One: That is precisely my question.
I dont think you can openly spot a user. Its all about taking chances. How much you chose to interact with someone is your own choice. Regardless your going to get screwed over, not once, not twice, but probably 10 times. Its a part of life. I dont think I can shut myself off from others for the rest of my life, or live w/o friends. Just use your best judgement, thats all you can really do. At any given moment a life long friend can turn on you.
It doesn't matter how long you've been in contact or "friends" with someone. Because that past will count for nothing. It's the present and the future you have to think about. That's just how I think. If I feel someone is mistreating me, then they should be thinking of those years.
hmm .. interesting topic.
yeah it's amazing and disgusting.. if you're nice, polite and considerate people automatically think you're a moron.
There used to be a time I had more 'friends' then I could possibly keep track off.. they all wanted my time for me to hangout with them etc
Sadly I knew from the the start this was a being 'popular' thing.. everyone wants to be around the popular guy.. but I was dissappointed when in the end when it turned out just how few were really my friends!?
At the time it turned out to be just one!?
But things worked out I met a whole other group of sincere people and life went on.
After a bitter experience like that you just know ...never ignore your gut instincts.
There's a big difference between people you know and your true friends.
If you find you're the one making all the effort in a relationship that's a pretty good sign... they're wasting your time.
Waqas
simply use people u think are trying to use u, so they know how it feels to be used!!!!!!!!!!
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